How am i a reflection in my relationships?

How am i a reflection in my relationships?

i feel that i can be a reflection in my relationships because if you want to be in a good relationship you would be in one where you could see yourself in the other person as if they were part of you. To be a relfection you would have to be in a relationship with someone who has alot of things in common with you. Maybe if the person your with remmebers alot of important things about you like for instance your birthday, they would be like a reflection of you. That is how you can be a reflection of yourself.